Guests Scramble to Afford the Cost of Attending Weddings

Saturday, May 28th, 2016
Updated: May 28th, 2016
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Lots of people get choke up at weddings, but this year, people might be crying over more than just the sight of the happy couple.

The American Express Spending & Saving Tracker found that this year, the average American will attend three weddings and spend an average of $703 per event. That’s a 5% jump over last year, when the average outlay per wedding was $673. Young people spend the most on weddings, with an average cost of $893 to attend their friends’ big day. In contrast, the general population spends 27% less per wedding.

Why so expensive? One big factor is whether you’re in the wedding party or not. If you’re a bridesmaid or groomsman, you can expect to shell out an average of $743—up from $701 in 2015. Millennials in the wedding party are spending an average of $928, the highest of any demographic.

Besides that, there’s airfare to get to the wedding (an average cost of $205), a snazzy new outfit to wear ($166), childcare or pet sitting ($69), and a gift ($127 for a relative, $99 for a friend).

Gifts add up

When buying a gift, 37% of guests choose something off the wedding registry. Thirty-one percent give the couple cash, perhaps for a honeymoon or a down payment on a home, and 13% give a gift card. When buying for a relative, they spend an average of $28 more than for a friend. That represents a shrinking in the gap between spending on a friend and spending on family; last year the gulf was wider, at 58% vs. 28% difference in 2015.

Who pays for what, and how they cut costs

The days of dad paying for the whole wedding are mostly in the past; 53% of folks fund their own weddings these days, either with cash, or credit and debit cards. Just over one-third of couples (35%) get help from their parents—the bride or groom’s family.

To save money, couples are doing the following:

• Having a courthouse wedding, or keeping the ceremony and reception very small
• Not hiring a wedding planner
• Choosing a cheaper wedding venue
• Doing a DIY project, such as a wedding album, centerpiece, or guest favors

The American Express Spending & Saving Tracker was conducted online and included responses from 1800 adults in the United States, including an affluent demographic with a minimum household income of $100,000. Interviews were done in February 2015.

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